I Dumped Him.

[Calisto]

Well the time has come to pass and I couldnt take this loveless relationship any longer, so last night I told Rich he was dumped.

Well we nearly made it ...............only 5 days short of our two year anniversary

But after much heart breaking thought, I have split with Rich, we both agreed it was for the best. We had a good time together and shared so much BUT

I was clinging onto a relationship that really was not there. No matter how much I love the guy (and I still do and always will) I really couldnt put up with the pain any longer. He loved/loves me in his own way but I needed more. We could both see that.

I spent most of the day crying over what I have lost but never had if that makes sense. I guess it will take time for me to get over this I dont take breaking up with someone lightly and I would be lying if I said I was fine and OK.

But now we are good mates sharing a bed (I really couldnt see him getting the spare room ready for me) I will still be staying with him until I get a place of my own, which was the plan all along.

So there you have it, both of us single (I hate being on my own) :shutit: and Rich is kinda used to it. :P

Good friends here we come. B)

[Demonic Angel]

Feel for you Ash hun, I know how hard it must have been for you.

You're both great people, I wish you both all the best for the future.

Always here for you hun, keep smiling, it will get better

All the best

Em

xx

[dawesy]

sorry to hear that ash. at least the two of you are still on good terms and you still have a good freind. all the best

[alanbradley]

at least the two of you are still on good terms and you still have a good freind. all the best

Exactly, but I'm still sorry to hear it.

Good luck, stay friends and the happiest futures to you both,

Alan

[Boro Sera]

yeah, good luck to both of you.

<edit> I really should read things a bit more carefully !..............oops !

[Hou]

What?Why?Where?

Have you finally found out about our relationship?

I cannot believe this, I thought all was great between you, sorry for once im speachless

[JappyBeast]

Ash, I missed your hug at JAE this year :(

Hope all is well.

[Leeky]

flippin ek! Everyone is splitting this time of year...

More breakups in the last 2months than i can remember in the history of Toc.

Always for the best Asha As the honda advert says...

"Hate something Change something Hate something change something Make something better"

;)

[daktari]

Aww Ash. Really sorry to hear this for both of you. :(

[Devil-ish]

Ah well. *sighs....as I 've said before I'm always here for you to chat Ash. Sad for both of you, you are both and will always remain our good buddies. Dont be strangers eh?????? ;)

[~Rach~]

Awww hun :(

I was thinking about you last night actually, was quite worried for some reason but I didnt know why :group-cuddles:

Hope everything works out for the better xx

[martin_longbow]

Hopefully that's the worst bit over and today you will have a new outlook, hope all goes well

[Kev Mc]

Sorry to hear this, good luck to you both

[Gnome]

It's a fresh start lass, so don't worry.

Good thing is, you're still friends.

Stay strong, and try and enjoy the single life. ;)

[JustJJ]

See you at the weekend sweetie!

[Robie]

The title of the topic is a tad insensitive if you truly do care for him :S

[Charlies Angel]

Sorry to hear that :(

-but maybe its not a topic to be broadcast all over a forum?????

[Jamesb4uk]

-but maybe its not a topic to be broadcast all over a forum?????

Glad i wasn't the only one to think that.

Sorry to hear that Ash

J

[JustJJ]

The title of the topic is a tad insensitive if you truly do care for him :S

Sorry to hear that :(

-but maybe its not a topic to be broadcast all over a forum?????

No... I too thought this... especially as the post on TOC differs slightly to other places Ive seen it... I was wondering why the difference here...

Its a sad day when any split occurs... whatever the reasons...

[Boro Sera]

The title of the topic is a tad insensitive if you truly do care for him :S

Sorry to hear that :(

-but maybe its not a topic to be broadcast all over a forum?????

No... I too thought this... especially as the post on TOC differs slightly to other places Ive seen it... I was wondering why the difference here...

Its a sad day when any split occurs... whatever the reasons...

I fully agree with the above statements...........let's hope Rich doesn't read this !

[chris202]

Yeah sorry to hear that but as said if it was me it wouldnt be on here.......

[GT4 BOOSTER]

do you have !Removed! tendencies then cris ????? :P

[jaxx]

i gotta agree.....

broadcast it over an internet forum?

[chris202]

do you have !Removed! tendencies then cris ????? :P

why, you interested big boy ?

[Blaze]

The title of the topic is a tad insensitive if you truly do care for him :S

Sorry to hear that :(

-but maybe its not a topic to be broadcast all over a forum?????

No... I too thought this... especially as the post on TOC differs slightly to other places Ive seen it... I was wondering why the difference here...

Its a sad day when any split occurs... whatever the reasons...

I fully agree with the above statements

Yup that goes for a few topics on here at the moment! Some things are meant to be private, not general