hi shelly i know you dont know me but get a little eb in anyway i hope you feel better after talking a bit about it and wish you and your family all the best for the future no matter what happens you said your mum wants to enjoy herself more and shes been going out with her friends clubbing and that but why cant she enjoy herself out clubbing etc with your dad still in her life i would want both my parents to sit down with me and explain why they want a divorce there must be something more to it than just wanting to enjoy herself more get them to so sit down and ask them do they still truly love each other if not and they are gonna argue and fight all the time it will be for the best if they split up so dont worry about anything you are to young to be worrying about all that get out and take your mind of it and if its gonna happen it will just take 1 day at a time and dont let anything get ya down l8r jay